Should I Be a Gentleman or Not?

In my opinion, a gentleman, a real gentleman, knows when it is time for a crass joke and tells one. A gentleman doesn't use the the excuse of being a gentleman to avoid working with others or helping others in need. A gentleman never claims a task is below him, such as helping someone change a tire. A gentleman is someone who puts others comfort above his own, so if that means telling a crass joke, tell the joke. If it means helping someone in need, even though you might get your hands dirty, help that person. It means not being a snob or a wuss.